Hey, just keeping it real...

I've finally realized why porn started to bore me long ago and why even though I've used it in my humor (and will continue to)...I'm just not that into it anymore. When you're a young man and vaginal access is a novelty to you, you tend to be more greedy and ego driven. Look at most porn, the woman tends to be nothing more than a masturbatory extension of the man's arm. He's always more interested in "Pounding" her than enjoying the process.

I've been guilty of that before. I was one of those guys who wanted to "Get up in those guts" or "Slice that" or "Bust that ass" etc. Ego...ego...ego. This mindset ignores the emotional side. People would be surprised to know how much the mind and emotions play a role in orgasms.

I don't care how "Hot" A person is, they CAN'T make you feel what a person you really care about can make you feel. (Well, not after the first 3 months anyway. Hey, just keeping it real) Once I realized this and felt the pleasures of sex...WITH CARING, I thought "Damn! It could have been feeling like THIS?" I know now. I took the red pill. I will not settle. (Unless it takes too long to find my next serious girlfriend...then...I'm probably going to do SOME fucking. Hey, just keeping it real)